美国的生活和价值  American life and value

 

 

在美国，好大学并不一定有好工作  In the United States, a good university does not necessarily have a good job.

我是在中国长大的，来美国读书后才留下来。从我个人经历来说，我觉得中国女性与男性相比，比美国的女性和男性，更平等。中国的社会提倡男女都一样，妇女能顶半边天！可是我觉得中国社会，有时候忽略了男女的生理构造不同，气质性向有別，曲解了男女都一样的深入含义，单纯粗糙地理解为男人能做的事女人也能做，所以有时候让女孩子做跟男人一样的体力活儿，我也没有看见男人为女生开门的。可能因为标准一样，势必女生要跟男生一样努力！当然这在学校是件好事儿，因为儿童少年时期的女孩子比较听话早熟又努力，学校学的基本上都是智能上的，所以学习成绩比男生好，老师喜欢。在中国的大学一定是女生成绩比男生好的。也许小时候穷，也许我妈妈被共产党洗脑了，她不教我打扮，只紧盯着我的考试成绩，并且告诉我，女孩子不用去学烹饪和家务，到时候自然就会. 只要成绩好进好大学，就会有好工作。可是在美国，好大学并不一定有好工作。我爸让我进复旦，我妈希望我能学科学，因为学好数理化，走遍天下都不怕，将来出国也容易找工作。就是现在我妈还逼我让Jackie学数理化专业，这比起亲爱的习主席，88，每次一听我讲数学，就从深水里跳出来冒泡阻止，简直是天壤之别，你们都是复旦国际政治系毕业的哟。哈哈哈哈 我是在对学电子的将来没有多大认识的情况下进的理工科，男生当然占大多数，在学校里学习我不觉得有什么差别，只有做实验时我不太会焊电路，实习的时候，我要花很长时间才能敲出榔头，觉得没有理工家庭背景比较吃亏，可上电脑交作业女生都比男生好。来到美国，我才真正开始我的成年生活。我才知道，什么叫男女有别。

I grew up in China and stayed after studying in the United States. From my personal experience, I think Chinese women are more equal with men and women than that in the United States. Chinese society advocates the same for men and women, and women can top half the sky! However, I feel that Chinese society sometimes ignores the different physiological structures of men and women, temperament and sexuality are different, misinterpreting the in-depth meaning of "the same for men and women", simply and roughly understood as "a woman can do things that men can do", so sometimes girls are allowed to do the same physical work as men, and I have not seen men open the door for girls.  Perhaps because of the standard, girls must work as hard as boys! Of course, this is a good thing in school, because the children in childhood and girls are more obedient and hard-working, and the school is basically teaching knowledge , so girls academic performance is better than the boys, the teacher likes girls. In Chinese universities, girls must be better than boys. Maybe when I was young, maybe my mother was brainwashed by the Communist Party. She didn't teach me to dress up, just stared at my test scores, and told me that girls don't have to learn cooking and housework, and naturally they will  on growing up. From good university, they will find good jobs. However, in the United States, a good university does not necessarily have a good job. My dad asked me to go to Fudan. My mother hoped that I could study science. Because good at mathematics and physics, one will not be afraid to work all over the world. It is easy to find a job in the future. It is even now that my mom still forces me to let Jackie learn mathematics and chemistry. Compared to dear President Xi, 88, every time you heard mathematics,   jumped out of the deep water bubbling. to stop me! It’s an earth sky difference. You are all   graduates of the Fudan International Political Department. Hahahaha, I was enrolled  in the science and engineering department without much understanding of the future of learning electronics. Of course, boys were the majority. I didn’t think there was any difference in studying at school. Only when I did the experiment, I didn’t know how  to solder the circuit. When I was in  internship, I had to take a long time to knock out the hoe. I thought without engineering family background, so I was more disadvantaged. Yet  on taking computer class for homework girls are better than boys. When I came to the United States, I really started my adult life. I just know what is different between men and women.