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教孩子要有计划固定老师

已有 85 次阅读2022-5-5 22:46 |个人分类:全球化

Feb 8, 2018 at 10:55 PM
教孩子要有计划,固定老师 Teach children to have plans, fixed teachers
亲爱的习主席,88,今天回来, 群里聊天有普京大帝,还有泽曼总统,我就相信真的是你们两个了。讲起教孩子,Jackie跟你们以后,学别的有一点心不在焉。她学习效果不高,是事实,你们把整段的时间切分,又请不同的老师给她讲解,而且缺少一个长期的培养计划, 当然效果不高. 我从心里不认为中学生光做回家作业要做到晚上11 ,12点的。其中,她应该有时间可以学到很多别的东西!当然,她跟你们在一起,跟人交流的能力,演讲的能力,个人魅力,性格活泼可爱,远远超过同龄的孩子。这一点有目共睹,我非常感谢你们的!亲亲. 但是,一个人社交以及找交心的长久的朋友,不只是社交本领,要有趣,言之有物,那是从阅历学养来的, 是头脑里的东西. 孩子小正是黄金时候,要专心多学点东西的,还有一些是动手,领导和生活能力的。而且经常换老师,虽然老师学富五车,世界名校毕业,可教的只是当天的学习内容。如果老师没有计划,没有跟随她的学习历史,很难把她以前学的东西触类旁通,很难把她学过的知识加以概括抽象,效果非常打折扣的。学习到一定程度,需要有一个点睛过程,这样才会更上一层楼. 一通百通的. 通了,学习新东西才会有效果,有效率!比如生词,她每天只是背,没有人把她背过的单词分析组合归类,或把一些单词跟某一特殊事务挂钩,清楚显示这些单词的用法, 肯定没有的。她怎么能够好好掌握这些单词呢?不掌握这些词的深切含义,她以后讲话怎么会用呢,不用这些词,怎么知道如何表达生动形象准确呢?我不是这样教她的。比如说,我给她讲音乐的时候,一个乐句的起伏,我用绘画中的色彩变化,由浓转淡来解释,乐章变化,给她讲色彩的组合。她一听就明白了,弹出来的感觉就完全不一样。给她讲数学,跟她讲的不只是定理,不只是定律的应用范围,而且是讲基本逻辑,是连贯讲很多事物的内在本质,分析思考问题的方法,看问题的角度!比如昨天泽曼总统让我讲瑞士和捷克。讲什么呢?如何比较?在数学上,你一定要有笛卡尔坐标系,你才可以比较两点的位置,远近距离。两个国家要比较,你得要有一个参照物,在什么标准下比较。而且对于不同的人,萝卜青菜各有所爱的。我在教她严谨,讲道理。不能拿起青菜就是泥,想当然乱说的。在这件事上,做妈妈的我算是对你们睁一只眼闭一只眼。因为她跟你们在一起很开心欢乐,我就是教她一大堆东西,如果她一本正经戴着厚厚眼镜,像个小修女那样古怪拘谨,唯唯诺诺的,有啥意思?但是如果你们要想做称职的有口碑的好老师,在教学方法上,要再多加一点功夫,要多一点创造力和艺术性的。教她是对你们,可亲可爱尊贵的充满魅力个性十足的,有时比男孩子们都更调皮的世界领袖们的挑战咯!

Dear President Xi, 88, Jackie comes back today, there are Putin the Great in the group, and President Zeman, so I believe that it is really two of you. When you talk about teaching child, Jackie, after being with you, when learn something else she is a little bit absent-minded. Her learning effect is not high, it is a fact, you divide the whole period of time into pieces, and ask different teachers to explain to her, and lack of a long-term training plan, of course, the effect is not high. I do not think that the middle school students should not do homework till 11 or 12 o'clock in the evening. With time, she should have time to learn a lot of other things! Of course, she is with you, learns the ability to communicate with others, the ability to speak, the charisma, her character is lively and lovely, far more than the same age children. This is obvious to all; I am very grateful to you! Kiss. But, a person who socializes and finds a long-lasting friend is not just relying social skill. It’s fun, it’s something to share, it’s learned from experience, it’s something in the brain. To concentrate on learning more, there are also some hands-on skills, leadership and living skills. And you often change teachers, although the teachers are so knowledgeable, world famous school graduates, can only teach same day's learning content. If the teacher does not have a plan and does not follow her study history, it is difficult to bypass the things she has learned before, it is difficult to generalize the knowledge she has learned, and the effect is very discounted. When learning to a certain extent, she needs to have a finishing touch, so that she will get to the next level. As long as one is through, a lot will be through. When through, learning new things will have an effect and be efficient! For example, a new word, she is only memorizing every day, no one classifies the combination of words that she has recited, or connects some words with a particular transaction, clearly showing the usage of these words, certainly not!  How can she master these words well? Without grasping the deep meaning of these words, how can she use it later? Without these words, how does she know how to express vivid images? I didn't teach her like this. For example, when I told her about music, the ups and downs of a phrase, I used the color change in the painting, explained by the thickening, the movement changed, and told her the combination of colors. She understood it as soon as she heard it, and the feeling of popping up was completely different. Tell her about mathematics. It is not just the theorem.  It is not just the scope of application of the law, but also the basic logic. It is the intrinsic essence of coherently speaking many things, analyzing and way of thinking about problems, and how to looking at the problem! For example, President Zeman asked me to talk about Switzerland and the Czech Republic yesterday. How to talk about it? How to compare? In mathematics, you must have a Cartesian coordination then you can compare the position of two points, the distance. To compare two countries, you have to have a reference and compare under what criteria. And for different people, cheese and Tofu have their own love. I am teaching her rigorous and reasonable. Can't just pick up the vegetables from the mud, take it for granted. In this matter, I am a mother, I am turning a blind eye to you. Because she is very happy with you, even though I am teaching her a lot of things, if she is wearing a thick pair of glasses, like a little nun, it’s weird and cautious. However, if you want to be a good teacher with a good reputation, you should add a little more effort to teaching methods and be more creative and artistic. Teach her is a challenge to the world leaders who are full of charisma and personality, who sometimes more naughty than the boys!


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