如果我爸爸在上海，也许不会那么早就去世  If my dad was in Shanghai, he might not have died so early

88，我喜欢你的善良，不与人为难，对Jackie满怀热情 天天如一日，只是你会狭隘自私吗？一般最小的和独生子习惯被照顾的，不像老大比较有担待，能信赖你吗？88, 在外面放一个，做后备比较安心是吗？你们每天跟Jackie这么亲热，对谁都不能给一个完整. 我和Jackie要完整的爱，要有实质内容的爱. 虚无缥缈的东西那是游戏. 88，有比没有好是吗？后面策划，你们把只给 Jackie的也分一半给我，自然而然我可以带着Jackie寻找自己的幸福，寻找能给她完整爱的爸爸. 88, 当你自己有小孩子的时候, 你现在还能实实在在, 将来会全心全意接受我和Jackie吗？后面策划者玩弄人性有啥好开心？再问你们一下, 如果对小孩的妈妈, 只给她小孩奶粉, 不给她报酬过日子, 她能好好地给小孩喂奶, 一门心思养育孩子长大呢？军队的可以当工具用对吗？当然 Jackie不是你们自己的孩子，岂敢奢求. 亲爱的主席，88, 你们策划安排是算很功利的吧, 只求满足你们自己的需要, 不考虑别人人性和生活的？你们能给她的只是精神上的吗？小孩子需要的不光是精神上的，不光只是跟人见个面吃个饭呀！她不需要做特别的天上的神童，而先要做人间的在温暖有人性完整爱的环境里生长的孩子. 还有给她努力营造这些环境的，承担绝大部分责任的妈妈的报酬呢? 88，至少有给小孩的, 有比没有好, 对吧? 用屁股想, 这是什么荒谬不伦不类安排. 你们后面的策划者，有这样的价值观和做事方法，充其量是某一阶段一个冲锋陷阵的打手和得心应手的工具,永远做不了人的领袖.他们可以音敲得特准，就是弹奏不出美妙动听的乐曲.没有一个母亲是真正乐意的，问那三个年轻女人，谁不想有自己相爱的男人，生养自己的孩子，过自己小日子？88，今天我好像有点神经过敏哦！ 因为复旦付我爸爸过世慰问金，于是去复旦谢祝奇秀和周润零两位老师. 这是只有在中国才会发生的事情, 在美国公司巴不得你早点退休的. 没想到这次还有给我钱. 正好碰上复旦退休老师聚会，看见了很多以前爸爸嘴巴里一直谈起的各位老师，甚至新上任的苏长和院长也来给他们讲话. 88，我一个字都没有提你，88，根本没有.  看着那些老师们，跟我爸差不多年纪的，都精神挺好的，大家彼此认识大家好多年，就像一个大家庭一样. 我心想如果我爸爸在上海，也许不会那么早就去世了. 其实我爸爸不愿意去美国，美国哪有上海那么丰富的活动和谈得来的朋友啊. 我更深切地体会到对老年人来说，物质生活不是最重要的，有一个舒适习惯的环境，周围有一群可以天南地北谈得来的老友，才是健康长寿的保证呢. 祝启秀受不了美国的寂寞，回来自己上老年大学，既学钢琴，又唱歌锻炼，讲起话来像年轻人，心态朝气蓬勃的. 我看他们这些人在一起都能说会道的，一个一个正经八百地发言，心里又为父母难过. 其实我们这些人到国外来，过得都是寂寞日子呀.

88. I like your kindness, not embarrassing others, full of enthusiasm for Jackie, every day is the same, but you may be narrow minded and selfish? Generally, the youngest and only child is used to being cared for, unlike the eldest son who is more burdened, can I trust you? 88, put one outside, is it safer to be a backup? Every day you are so intimate with Jackie, you can't give a complete love to anyone? Jackie and I want complete love, and love with substantive content. The things that are illusory are games. 88, is it better than nothing? Behind the planners, you give me half of the love you give for Jackie. Naturally, I can take Jackie to find my happiness and find her a father who can give her complete love. 88, when you have children, you are now It can still be real, but will I accept Jackie and I wholeheartedly in the future? What's so great about the planners behind playing with human nature? I would like to ask you again, if the child’s mother is given only milk powder for her child,  will not be paid for her life. Then, can she feed her children well, can she keep raising her children all the time? Can people in the army be used as tools? Of course Jackie is not your own child, how dare I ask for it? Dear Chairman, 88, is your planner arrangement very utilitarian? They only seek to meet your own needs, do not consider the humanity and life of others? Can you give Jackie only spiritual food? Children need more than spiritual, not just meeting people to have a meal! She doesn't need to be a special prodigy in the air, but first wants to be a child who grows up in a warm and human environment with complete love. And what about the remuneration of the mother who bears most of the responsibilities for her efforts to create these environments? 88. At least there is caring for child, it ’s better than nothing, right? I think about it with ass, what a ridiculous and nondescript arrangement. The planners behind you have such values ​​and ways of doing things. They are at best a hitter and a handy tool at a certain stage. They can never be the leader of everyone. They can strike the sound accurately, but they can’t play wonderful Beautiful melody. No mother is really willing to do this. Ask the three young women, who doesn’t want to have a man she loves, raise their own children, and live their own lives? 88, I seem a little nervous today! Because Fudan University paid my father’s death condolences, I went to Fudan University to thank the two teachers, Zhu Qiqixiu and Zhou Runling. This is only happening in China. In the United States, the company would like you to retire sooner. I was given money. It happened to meet the reunion of Fudan retired teachers, and I saw many teachers who had been talked about in my father’s mouth, and even the newly appointed Dean “Su Changhe” came to speak to them. No mention of you, 88, not at all. Looking at the teachers, those who are about the same age as my dad, are in good spirits. Everyone has known each other for many years, just like a big family. I thought if my dad was in Shanghai, maybe he wouldn’t die so early. Actually, my dad didn’t want to go to the United States, where is there so many activities and energy and talkative friends like in Shanghai ? I deeply understand that for the elderly, material life is not the most important thing. There is a comfortable and habitual environment, and there are a group of old friends around the world who can talk to each other, which is the guarantee of health and longevity.  Zhu Qixiu couldn't stand the loneliness of the United States. She came back to China to go to a senior college on her own, learning piano and singing. She talks like a young woman, with a vibrant spirit. I think they can talk with each other, and speak one by one with a seriousness. I feel sad for my parents again. In fact, we are all lonely when we go abroad.