1.            教Jackie穿衣  Teach Jackie to Dress

 

 

亲爱的主席，88，我昨天又讲到要她做饭做菜，你们又很“合时宜”地站出来说，都不用学做菜烧饭的！我要开始翻你们白眼啦，这哪象父亲说的话？就一个无关痛痒, 推卸责任, 袖手旁观者嘛！有哪个父亲不希望女儿能学会好厨艺，将来可以独立生活，招待亲友，侍奉丈夫，满足儿女的？这边白人男孩子，生活自理能力都很强，虽不像中国男孩那么会烧饭烧菜，简单的家务健康的食物都会做！所以他们并不一定要找一个无微不至，替他们上下左右打理的老婆，除非自己老了不能动了，边上要有一个人. 女孩子要学会生活能力，不然，长大靠男人来服侍吗？不可能的. 女孩子要学会生活能力，如果像你们这样，生活全部被人包了，就一辈子做“长工”了.  做父亲的，真的爱她，就把什么都教给她，秀给她看怎么做，告诉她要点. 今天早上我仔细给她讲，昨天的衣服之所以搭配好看，是简单的color contrast, 人的眼睛习惯追踪亮色浅色，深色裤子合身, 短夹克让人注意她的长下摆无袖衫，这样衣服就穿出了上下里中外三个层次，而且是不同颜色有黑白对比的！而她虽然是年轻女孩，但又活泼艺术性, 所以上衣下摆有层次像裙子, 或者加宽laces，胸前还有很复杂的镂空花案，很体现她的性格气质，会狠抓别人眼球，那看上去很舒服！她下次穿衣服也可以用里中外的层次加上色彩对比，并且加艺术性的点睛细节！或者，她可以穿短上衣配低腰裤，因为她年轻腰细比较性感，这比穿短裤要中看有性吸引力多了，她不知道隐约的要比全暴露更有性感！这样也有上中下的颜色可以对比，也可以由浅入深. 而且女孩子穿长裙显得腿长和女性温柔，可她根本就不碰长裙. 穿短裙活泼性感，她最喜欢穿短裤露长腿.  如果腿不细长千万别穿短裙，千万别去穿颜色太丰富的衣服，第一她没有这样的阅历，性格还没有这样丰富. 颜色太丰富的衣服让人眼花缭乱不舒服，色彩丰富复杂精细的部分可以做装饰点睛之笔. 而且她不很高，腿不是很长，脚踝不太细，穿瘦腿裤，如果下面不踩高跟鞋，千万不要把裤腿卷起来，因为那样会让腿显得更短. 连美术老师都告诉她，为了腿显瘦长要把裤子整个色块放长. 她不听，因为这不是他们学校风行的，不是她的那些闺蜜们穿的样子. 为了说服她，今早我很耐心地坐下来画给她看，看明白了吗？看见了吗？于是，小缸都小傻瓜一声不响去自己房间把裤腿放下来了. 亲爱的主席，88，啥时候你们也能这样跟她讲呀？寄给她网页让她看，帮她分析好的适合她的搭配呀？一天之中，除了上学，她跟你们讲话是最多的啦，对你们最言听计从的啦，请可怜可怜我，帮帮我吧.

 

Dear President, 88, I talked about asking her to cook again yesterday, and you came out "just in time" and said that she doesn’t need to learn to cook! I'm going to roll you my eyes white. How can this sound like a father’s saying? Just an irrelevant, shirk responsibility, standbyer! Is there any father who does not want his daughter to learn to cook well, and can live independently in the future, entertain relatives and friends, serve her husband, and satisfy her children? The white boys here have a strong ability to take care of themselves. Although they are not as good at cooking as Chinese boys, only making simple household chores and healthy food! So they don't necessarily look for a wife who takes care of them up and down, left and right, unless they are old and can't move then there should be someone on the side. Girls need to learn the ability to live, otherwise, do men grow up to serve them? Impossible! Girls have to learn the ability to live. If you, like you, have all your life covered, you will be a “long term worker” all your life. As a father, if you really love her, teach her everything, show her how to do it, and tell her the main points. I told her carefully this morning，the reason why yesterday ’s clothes look good is simple color contrast. Human eyes are accustomed to tracking bright colors, dark pants fit, and short jackets draw attention to her long hem sleeveless shirt, so that the clothes wear three layers of upper, lower, inner and outer levels, and different colors have black and white contrast! And although she is a young girl, she is also lively and artistic, so the hem of the top has layers like skirts, or wide laces, and there are very complicated cutouts on her chest, which reflects her temperament and will catch others ’eyes. That looks very comfortable! Next time she wears clothes, she can also add color contrast at the inside and outside levels, and add artistic finishing touches!  Alternatively, she can wear a short top with low-waist pants, because her young waist is thinner and sexy, which is more attractive than shorts. She doesn't know that it is more sexy than full exposure! In this way, the colors of the top, bottom, and bottom can be contrasted, and they can also be shallow to deep. And girls wear long skirts that appear to be long and feminine, but she doesn’t touch the long skirts at all. Wearing short skirts is lively and sexy, and she likes wearing shorts to show long legs. If the legs are not slender, don’t wear short skirts, and don’t wear clothes that are too colorful. First, she doesn’t have such experience, her personality is not so rich. Clothes that are too rich in color can be dazzling and uncomfortable, and the colorful and complex parts can be the finishing touch in decoration. And she is not very tall, her legs are not very long, her ankles are not too thin, and she wears skinny pants. If she doesn’t step on high heels, does not roll up the legs of the pants, because that will make the legs look even shorter. Even the art teacher told her that to lengthen the entire color of the pants in order to get thinner legs. She did not listen because it was not popular in their school, not the way her girlfriends wore. In order to convince her, I sat down patiently this morning and showed it to her, “did you understand? did you see it?” So, the little idiot went to her room and put down the legs of her pants without saying a word. Dear Chairman, 88, when can you talk to her like this? Send her a webpage for her to read and help her analyze the good match for her? Besides children in school, she talks to you the most, and listens to you the most. Please pity me and help me.

亲爱的主席，88，她现在才刚刚开始进入青春期，要鼓励她探索人生，鼓励她去尝试各种可能找到适合自己的，要给她建议，告诉她原理，因为美国很多东西都缺少变换，平时生活封闭接触人事也不多，我不是很富裕也不提供太多的可能性，她很有一点保守顽固的. 你们不能由着她的性子，她现在跟我住，我的方式或凡有新的东西，一开始我就要连哄带骗，巧立名目，强迫她有不同的选择，从中挑选适合她自己的，让她适应习惯. 一旦养成习惯了，有了自己的风格，她自己就会有创意选择了. 如果她是跟你们住，你们知道当地的天气环境风格，到时候你们替她做主，做她的后盾， 随她自由，那也不迟！她的荷尔蒙在变，以后交朋友接触社会有好多事儿呢，会没完没了折腾一辈子，有得做父母的头痛了！88，做父亲的，勿好轻描淡写由着她的，父母之爱子，则为之计深远，嘿嘿嘿嘿嘿  我不在你们的组里，Jackie也听不懂你们的言下之意，为什么昨天你们说普京脑子秀逗秀逗，因为普京称赞金正恩？为什么今天普京也说你们搞错？因为你们做跟他一样的事儿吗？到底是什么事情？听说今天特鲁多的孩子会现身，Jackie已经安奈不住很激动啊，他们应该讲讲怎么滑雪的事儿，讲廻游跳水坝的三文鱼, 讲一讲加拿大BC的落矶山脉, 天堂一般的Benff和路易斯湖. 今天Jackie够忙的，上午跟两个长发妹妹做项目，是两个长发的呀. 下午，以前Yorbara school的闺蜜邀请她去玩, 说是想听她的琴声, 还会教她厨艺. 闺蜜也是爸爸在国内做事业，母女在外读书. 亲爱的主席，88，看见了没有，这才对了吗，做父母的要象这样才靠谱，不能轻轻松松的说 “我给她钱了，让她去买in N out burger and pizza...”  只要你们高兴，就一定是好事儿，我也高兴.

 

Dear President, 88, she has just begun to enter adolescence now. Please encourage her to explore her life, to encourage her to try all possible ways to find one that suits her, to give her advice and tell her the principle, because many things in the United States lack change, usually life is closed and there are not many people. I am not very wealthy nor providing too many possibilities. She is very conservative and stubborn. You can’t let her be. She lives with me now. In the beginning, I had to coax and trick, and set up a name, forcing her to have different choices, from which to choose her own, so that she can adapt to habits. Once the habit is established, with her own style, she will have a creative choice. If she lives with you, you know the local weather environment style, then you will be the master of her, and you will be her backing. It is not too late to set her free then! Her hormones are changing, and she will make friends and touch the society in the future. There are so many things that will endlessly toss her whole life, and it will have a headache for parents! 88. As a father, don’t underestimate her. When parents love their children, they have a far-reaching plan for them. Hey, hey, hey, hey, I’m not in your group, and Jackie doesn’t understand what you mean beyond your words. Why did you say that Putin's brain was so funny yesterday because Putin praised Kim Jong Un? Why did Putin say you were wrong today? Because you do the same thing as him? What the hell is going on?  I heard that today Trudeau’s children will show up. Jackie is anxious. They should talk about how to ski, talk about the salmon that swims back in the dam, talk about the Rocky Mountains in Canada BC, and heaven-like Benff and Lake Louise. Jackie is busy today, working on a project with two long-haired girls in the morning, two long-haired. In the afternoon, the girlfriend of Yorbara school invited her to play, saying that she wanted to hear her playing piano, she will also teach her cooking. Her girlfriend’s father is also doing business in the country, mother and daughter outside. Dear Chairman, 88, did you see it, is this right? Parents must be like this to be reliable, can’t just say "I gave her money and let her buy in-N-out burger and pizza ..." As long as you are happy, it must be a good thing, and I am also happy.