Jul 10, 2016 at 6:30 AM

Jackie接触不同人和不同的价值 Jackie meets different people touches  different values

虽然Jackie讲话穷凶极恶的，我对此也非常头疼的, 但我们沟通还算顺畅. 只要我讲得有理，她马上自己就明白笑了！家里一定要良好勾通的！中国人有句古话，清官难断家务事！所以，我又能说啥呢？ 但是，我可以说说Jackie. Jackie现在在学知识，在形成她的价值观. 曾经教Jackie学数学，严正警告她，因为她以前计算和答案在不同纸上，而且不淸晰，计算对了，答案居然会抄错！如果她弄错一个小数点位置，那就是十倍之差，造房子有这么大误差，房子会倒. 医生给药有这误差，会死人. 钱有这误差，可能一辈子白干. 告诉她, 不严谨, 不遵守规范, 以后会出大事的！ 好了，Jackie??????，她听从习主席的建议，装可人甜笑，“花”英皇专家，虽然不每天苦练，也蒙混过关了，这真岂有此理啊. 她还说，你们次咨询那位比我数学不知好多少倍的数学家，“是不是有误差房子就会倒？” 数学家回答“不一定！”还告诉我，她有一次不小心把小组课题内容删了，没办法, 只能从头准备. 虽然交上去晚了，结果Jackie告老师电脑出故障，所以晚交. 还因为你帮忙，居然拿A+. 还拿了诚实奖！不公平啊！ 这不是存心在跟我教她的, 规规矩矩做事价值观和道德起冲突吗？你也不赞成的.于是问她，你是follow习主席的，还是88的value？想也不想理直气壮告诉我，“it depends!" 她是对不同人事，在不同场合，区別对待. 突然觉得，Jackie长智慧了，一点一点成熟了. 那是你们言传身教，那是她有幸与不同人接触. 不同人，不同经历背景，有不同价值，她学习到，经历到，可以在不同场合起作用！

Although Jackie's speech was extremely bad, I was very troubled about it, but our communication was smooth. As long as I was reasonable, she immediately understood it! At home it must have good communication! However, I can talk about Jackie. Jackie is now learning knowledge and forming her values. I once taught Jackie to study mathematics and warned her seriously because she previously put calculations and answers  on different papers, and it was not clear. Although her calculation was right, the answer actually wascopied wrong! If she mistakes a decimal point position, it is ten times the difference. If building house would have such a large error, and the house will fall. If doctor has this error ingiving medicine, patients will die. If calculating money has this error, it may be a whole lifetime working for nothing. Tell her, ifnot strict, do not follow the rules, will make a big deal in the future! Well, Jackie told me that she listened to President Xi’s suggestion, and that it’s to use sweet smile “teasing” ABRSMtester. Although she was not practicing hard every day, passed anyway. This is ridiculous. She also said that  you hasconsulted  mathematician whose math is many times better than mine, "Is there an error, will the house fall?" The mathematician replied "not necessarily!" She also told me that she accidentally deleted the project contents, the group could not do anything. She can only prepare from scratch. Although she returned homework project late, Jackie told the teacher that the computer had failed, so she finished late. In addition with your help, she actually got A+ together with honesty award! What is this? Not fair! Isn't this inconsistent with my teaching, her rules and values conflict with my values and morality? 88 does not agree with her either. So I ask her, “are you follow chairman, or the value of 88? ” She does not eventhink about it telling me, “It depends!” So, she treats different people and things differently, on different occasions. Suddenly, I feel Jackie is smart and matures. It’s your words and deeds, it’s her luck contacting different people . Different people, with different experience backgrounds, have different values, she learned, experienced, can later work on different occasions!

可是怎么应用这些价值观，那是艺术啊. 谢谢你们！父母的想法, 永远都是为儿女好的，价值观世界观在经历中产生. 青春多好啊，可以毫无顾忌，没有负担，全心投入去尝试，nothing loss. 既使你已心有所属，有恋爱对象，但交朋友，成长，年青人为什么要封闭自己呢？ 谈恋爱是要学习的，做爱技巧要学，调情要学，勾通要学，家政要学，很多，很多. Jackie的同学现在就已经开始练手了，文化真不同的. 她有没有向你们散发荷尔蒙啊？野小句野孩子有没有吓到你们？帮我收她骨头！我知道我管不住她，对自己说，儿孙自有儿孙福. 美国是看颜值的社会，黑人少数族裔有一定形象价值.  而且黑人是比较暴力的！接触过许多黑人房客，整体印象不怎么样！ 美国警察一向暴力执法，这是他们的文化！every one is born sin, 这是圣经上说的，所以他们做事，法律政策，都以此为依据的！美国司法系统有既定程式，政府人员把不同情况match and fit 进入既有模式，没人会客观地去仔细了解，不会以人为本的，因为他们从小就是这么长大的, 被这么洗脑, 灌输，训练，follow the rules. 而中华文化是，人之初，性本善. 中国人性情温和，身手矫捷, 其实做警察挺好，少伤多少人命. 黑人，应该让他们向体育，娱乐发展. 美国军方之所以有黑人帮，那是因为白人不当丘八！懂了吧？

But how to apply these values, that is art. Thank you! Parents' ideas are always for their children good, and the values of the world  are formed from the experience. How good is youth, you can have no scruples, no burden, wholeheartedly try, nothing loss. Even if you have your own love, someone isloving you, but make more friends, grow up, why should young people close themselves? Falling in love to keep loverelationship has lots to learn, making love is a skill needs to learn, to flirt is also a skill needs to learn, communication is avery useful skill needs to learn, to learn house keeping, many, many. Jackie's classmates have begun to practice dating now, the culture is really different. Did Jackie distribute hormones to you? what? Did the wild Jackie  scare you? Help me discipline her! I know that I can't control her, telling myself that children and grandchildren have their own lives.  United States is a society that looks at appearance values, and the black minority has a certain image value. Black people are more violent! I have been exposed to many black tenants and the overall impression is not good! The US police has always been violent in law enforcement, this is their culture! Every one is born sin, this is what the Bible says, so when they do things, make legal policies, are all on this!  US judicial system has established procedures. Government personnel put the match and fit into different modes. No one will objectively tryto understand figuring things out, and the system is not people-oriented. Because they grew up like this, they are so brainwashed, instilled and trained. The Chinese culture is, at the beginning of the birth, all human nature is good.  Chinese have a mild temperament and a good kungfu skill. In fact, theyare good to be  policemen and fewer lives will be killed. Should just let black people develop in sports and entertainment field. The reason why the US military has black gangs is that whites are not joining military! Got it?