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Jun 22, 2017 at 3:23 AM
经常地互通有无,才能够让关系通顺 Communicate with each other frequently to make the relationship smooth亲爱的主席,88,我一个晚上没有睡好觉,心里面想着昨天Jackie跟一大帮人探讨宗教,那么玄妙,那么引人入胜的,是什么结果呢?Jackie告诉我,无论是土耳其还是以色列,他们都有一种机制,就是定期地比如每周邀请宗教各方人士,大家聚集在一起,就像你们的天天世界论坛,大家各抒己见,交流意见,讨论宗教话题,尽可能地互相理解. 如有什么冲突意见,放在桌面上摊开来,大家群策群力共同解决. 其实这就是中国政府内部的所谓民主集中制,而有两党议会制组成的美国民主,有他们自己一套西方的解决问题的过程. 美国这儿教写作,比如说写故事,一定要有冲突,然后高潮,让冲突解决才觉得完美. 而像这种多方坐在一起,不通过冲突高潮,而是用和稀泥的办法调和解决,西方“民主”人士是不能理解的. 我问Jackie,这个是叫做什么办法?她小脑袋想半天答不出来,真是小港渡笨蛋. 然后我很清楚地明明白白告诉她,这种方法叫做 “ Communication", 一定要记住了!沟通是人和人之间互相了解,理解,交朋友最基本的方法.上海人说男女之间的互相结识是 “谈“朋友,中国人说dating是谈恋爱,爱是谈出来的. 我问她沟通是双向还是单向的?“two way", 行了,我告诉她,你看那么多领袖愿意跟她交流,是诚心诚意的,真正把她当回事儿的,虽然她是个小不点.要是遇见不是 “two way" 的communication,关系就会 doesn't lead to anywhere, 那就当陌路吧. 让她学会看人挺重要的,人生少走多少弯路, 不能强求别人跟你同步的呢!88,是吧?嘿嘿嘿 你看知道如何去沟通,愿意沟通,化干戈为玉帛,大家和睦相处,多好!你看美国人创造性地把大规模杀伤性武器硬扣在伊拉克头上,不但不沟通,二话不说一大串的炸弹就扔人头上了,怎么可能有和平呢?夫妻之间要和睦,朋友之间,上下级之间,集团集团之间,都需要一个好的沟通能力,经常地互通有无,才能够让关系通顺!
Dear Chairman, 88, I didn’t sleep well all night, thinking in my heart that Jackie discussed religion with a large group of people yesterday. So mysterious, so fascinating, what is the result? Jackie told me that whether it is Turkey or Israel, they have a mechanism to regularly invite people from all religions, for example, every week, everyone gathers, just like your daily World Political Forum, everyone expresses their opinions, exchanges opinions, and discusses religious topics. Try to understand each other as much as possible. If there are any conflicting opinions, spread them on the table, and everyone will work together to solve them. In fact, this is the so-called democratic centralism within the Chinese government. The American democracy, which is composed of a two-party system, has its own set of Western problem-solving processes. The United States teaches writing, such as writing stories, there must be conflict, and then climax, so that conflict resolution will feel perfect. And like this Multi-party representatives sat together, not through solving climax of conflict, but by reconciling with the slime method. Western "democratic" people cannot understand it. I asked Jackie, what is this method called? Her little head didn't want to answer it for a long time, she was really fool. Then I told her clearly that this method is called "Communication", so she must remember! Communication is the most basic way for people to understand, know, and make friends. Shanghainese said that the acquaintance between men and women is "talking" to make friends, the Chinese say dating is "talking" about love, and "love" comes out. I asked her whether the communication is two-way or one-way? "Two way", OK, I tell her, you see so many leaders are willing to communicate with her, it is sincere, and really takes her seriously, even though she is a child. If she meets communication that is not "two way" , the relationship will not lead to anywhere, then be a stranger. It is important for her to learn to see people, so that she can take fewer detours in her life, and can not force others to synchronize with her! 88, right? Hey, hey, you know how to communicate, willing to communicate, turn war into peace, how good it is for everyone to live in harmony! You see that Americans creatively buckled Iraq's weapons of mass destruction charges. Not only did they not communicate, they also threw a large string of bombs on their heads, how could there be peace? Between husband and wife, between friends, between superiors and subordinates, between groups, all need a good communication ability, and often communicate with each other to make the relationship smooth!
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