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有些文化是由大家庭的族长决定。

已有 23 次阅读2022-6-21 21:49 |个人分类:全球化

Mar 15, 2018 at 10:01 PM
中国没有像美国这样子的两党轮流交替以民主的方式解决冲突的体制. 中国文化,中东地区地中海沿岸,也是大家庭. 大家讲定了,就由族长或者大家长一锤子定音  China does not have a system in which the two parties like the United States alternately resolve conflicts in a democratic way. Chinese culture, the Mediterranean coast of the Middle East, is also a big family. Everyone has made it, and the patriarch or everyone will make a final decision.
亲爱的习主席,88,昨天Jackie又讲得很晚,问她讲什么呢?“冷战” 谁在讲,“亲爱的习主席,88,uncle Vladimir and Zeman” 你们是大人啊,是大神,不用睡觉的,可她小孩子还在长身体, 我非常生气,想跟你们冷战!亲爱的习主席,88,你们现在的英文进步了很多呢,真不错,可以顺畅,自然地表达意思,跟国际上别的领导在一起,随心所欲拿起来就讲,畅所欲言就不害怕了, “冷战”变成了热聊了,很好. Jackie说,你们要我讲冷战。我觉得,冷战是象中国文革那样的,由错误的意识形态所带来的大浩劫。首先我要说,中国和西方的哲学观是不一样的。曾经有一位这边的美国朋友对我说,中国没有像美国这样子的两党轮流交替以民主的方式解决冲突的体制. 因为不公开选举领导人,所以中国是一党独裁专制的,是不民主的。我瞪着眼睛看着他半天,想了想跟他说,美国社会的家庭都是夫妻两个,所以家里事情两个人讨论争论,最后找到解决办法. 可是中国贫穷啊,不光是中国文化,中东地区地中海沿岸,也是大家庭啊,有父母,儿女就是成家了也会住在一起或者住在附近,整个家族都很近。那就不是夫妻两个说了算了,要全家老小,大家在一起商量解决的!尤其大事,大家讲定了,就由族长或者大家长一锤子定音!美国人以为的民主就一定只是小家庭夫妻吵架形式的,不然就不算民主. 在美国这边,教Jackie写记叙文,这边教材上面的模式,就是故事发展到一定阶段,就一定是要有冲突, 没有,也要创造一个出来, 最后高潮是解决冲突收尾的。可是记叙文就一定要有冲突吗?解决冲突可以有不同的方式啊,不一定要有那么戏剧化,惊天动地的。写给别人看博眼球,是打响知名度,增加阅读量,是为了增加销售量的商业需要. 可是在现实生活中,那么哗众取宠声势浩大解决,是需要花很大代价的。你看中国建国以后的那么多政治运动,折腾吧。犹太教里的亚伯拉罕统一了多神而推崇一神教。基督教又把此推向极端,充满了宗教的狭隘,非此即彼,打压异教. 比较起来,伊斯兰教宽容,虽然除了真主安拉,世界上没有第二个神,但在伊斯兰世界里,还是容忍尊重,允许民众信仰别的宗教,互相不干涉。

Dear President Xi, 88, Jackie talked very late yesterday and I asked her what you talked about? "Cold War” Who was talking? "Dear President Xi, 88, uncle Vladimir and Zeman" You were all adults, all big gods, did not have to sleep, but she is a child still growing, I am very angry, I want to protest! Dear President Xi, 88, your English has improved a lot now. It’s really good. You can express your meaning smoothly and naturally. You can talk with other leaders in the world. You can talk as you like, and you will not be afraid to speak freely. The "Cold War" has become a hot chat, very good.  Jackie said, you want me to talk about the “Cold War." I feel that the Cold War is like the Chinese Cultural Revolution, the great catastrophe brought about by the wrong ideology. First of all, I want to say that the philosophical views of China and the West are different. There was once an American friend here who told me that China does not have a system in which the two parties like the United States alternately resolve conflicts in a democratic way. Because they do not openly elect leaders, China is a one-party dictatorship, not Democratic. I looked at him with a squint for a long time and thought about then telling him that the families in American society are mostly both husband and wife, so two people at home discuss argue and finally find a solution. But China is poor, not only Chinese culture, the Middle East. The Mediterranean coast of the region have also big families. There are parents. When children are married, they would still live together or live nearby. The whole family is very close. That is not the husband and wife who have the final say, to the whole family, everyone to discuss together! Especially the big things, everyone has made it, and the patriarch or big parents make the final decision! The democracy that Americans think must be just a form of quarrel between small families or couples, otherwise it is not democratic. On the US side, when I teach Jackie to write narratives. The pattern on the textbook here is that the story develops to a certain stage, it must be conflict, if not, you must create one, and the final climax is to resolve the conflict. But must there be conflicts in the narrative? There are also different ways to resolve conflicts. It doesn't have to be so dramatic and earth-shattering. Writing to catch others’eyeballs is to increase the popularity and increase the amount of reading, in order to increase the commercial needs of sales. But in real life, so the sensationalism, the mammoth resolution, is a great price. You see so many political movements after China’s founding of the country, tossing so much. Abraham in Judaism united many gods and praised monotheism. Christianity has pushed this to the extreme, full of religious narrowness, either or both, to suppress paganism. In comparison, Islam is tolerant, although there is no second god in the world except Allah, but in the Islamic world, still tolerate and respect, allow the people to believe in other religions and not interfere with each other.


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